I do a lot of BDSM and in my experience only about 20% of women have strong kinky fantasies. Best predictor of kinky is Openness To Experience and to a lesser extent Introversion. Also. women get less and less kinky with age.
80% of women are perfectly happy with Vanilla sex, but they will accept and even often enjoy mild things like spanking, pulling hair, handcuffs etc... so it’s worth introducing them in your game for variety. For example I have a Vanilla plate and I give her a BDSM training once in a while to punish her for something or other.
Also note that kinky doesn’t necessary mean masochist. Some kinky women dislike pain and some not-kinky women like pain (the latter is rare though).
80% of women are perfectly happy with Vanilla sex, but they will accept and even often enjoy mild things like spanking, pulling hair, handcuffs etc... so it’s worth introducing them in your game for variety. For example I have a Vanilla plate and I give her a BDSM training once in a while to punish her for something or other.
Also note that kinky doesn’t necessary mean masochist. Some kinky women dislike pain and some not-kinky women like pain (the latter is rare though).