So quick story about me: 29 year old, 5 lays so far, 1 long term girlfriend between 19-22.
Been somewhat isolated socially for a long time, in my teens I played ALOT of computer games and then later years I worked in a very small village where I almost didnt socialise with anyone my own age.
I joined university again this august, Its in scandinavia so many people are around my own age, thankfully enough, but still plenty of 21 year olds too.
Im good looking, always have been, my facial structure is very good with a cut jaw and all that, ive worked out for many many years so my body is great.
Yet I fuck it up so so much, here in college Ive noticed girls staring at me every time Im out. On the dancefloor they grind on me, when just standing around some girls can come up and chat.
Yet i fuck it up.
Ive been asked 2 times now in just a week, by 2 different girls, why "Im angry", I seem to have a very angry look naturally. Also, at a party yesterday, we asked eachother questions and people had to point at the person they thought it fit the best.
One question was: "Who do u think have had the most sexual partners?", almost every girl pointed at me. Then "who do u think is the hornies person here?", also here, they pointed at me, most of them.
Yet, when In my presence, they become so .. what should I say, "shut off", like they just act a little bitchy and freeze up.
On the dancefloor, when girls grind on me, I just cant take the step to escalate, Its like im trying to protect myself and my own ego from getting rejected, so I dont even try.
My game is not good, my social skills is probably below average for my age and my natural state of mind is kinda .. well, "dull" or so, Im not that happy of a person, I dont smile much and I probably come off as kinda (Very) serious.
Its killing my chanses totally, Its like I have potential, but my worthless game skills fuck everything up.
I still have many years left here, with tons of parties, can anyone here please help me out, what should I think about and how would you go about fixing this?
Shit is tearing me apart.
Been somewhat isolated socially for a long time, in my teens I played ALOT of computer games and then later years I worked in a very small village where I almost didnt socialise with anyone my own age.
I joined university again this august, Its in scandinavia so many people are around my own age, thankfully enough, but still plenty of 21 year olds too.
Im good looking, always have been, my facial structure is very good with a cut jaw and all that, ive worked out for many many years so my body is great.
Yet I fuck it up so so much, here in college Ive noticed girls staring at me every time Im out. On the dancefloor they grind on me, when just standing around some girls can come up and chat.
Yet i fuck it up.
Ive been asked 2 times now in just a week, by 2 different girls, why "Im angry", I seem to have a very angry look naturally. Also, at a party yesterday, we asked eachother questions and people had to point at the person they thought it fit the best.
One question was: "Who do u think have had the most sexual partners?", almost every girl pointed at me. Then "who do u think is the hornies person here?", also here, they pointed at me, most of them.
Yet, when In my presence, they become so .. what should I say, "shut off", like they just act a little bitchy and freeze up.
On the dancefloor, when girls grind on me, I just cant take the step to escalate, Its like im trying to protect myself and my own ego from getting rejected, so I dont even try.
My game is not good, my social skills is probably below average for my age and my natural state of mind is kinda .. well, "dull" or so, Im not that happy of a person, I dont smile much and I probably come off as kinda (Very) serious.
Its killing my chanses totally, Its like I have potential, but my worthless game skills fuck everything up.
I still have many years left here, with tons of parties, can anyone here please help me out, what should I think about and how would you go about fixing this?
Shit is tearing me apart.