Quote: (09-13-2018 12:25 AM)Checkmat Wrote:
Since you have a kid with her and live together, I would advise couples counseling and everything you can do to see if things can improve. My marriage with my ex ultimately didn't work, but as gay as this sounds we got a lot of usefulness out of a book called The Five Love Languages.
If it were as simple as a girlfriend living with you, then yeah I'd agree with others and say to NEXT! her. But having the kid with her, to me that makes the relationship worth working on. I'm assuming you're already maximizing your looks/attractiveness, have cool hobbies and are in the gym religiously.
Couples counseling has a 99% failure rate. I would recommend any form of self improvement over that method. Would you trust something approved by the orthodoxy of current society to "fix" his relationship? He would just be paying to tag team himself with opponents instead of one that day.