The vicious circle of girls wet at IDGAF attitude, and then saying "it's too late"
09-10-2018, 09:40 AM
That explanation is not viable because many of these girls
did put extreme amounts of time and effort to be with me.
Some of them travelled and spent a lot of money and time just
to be next to me.
Many of these girls wrote me hundreds of very long emails, spent most of the days texting me,
and also spent a lot of time making plans for a future next to me.
With about 6 of them I was in long term relationship. However me showing affection
or showing I care, resulted in them becoming cold and changing their priorities.
It worked only being cold, being busy, being away, generally not caring.
I do not know yet the right way, and that is what I am asking here,
how to settle down in a good LTR, and for her to want it and not leave if I accept it.
What should be the key steps? Thank you
did put extreme amounts of time and effort to be with me.
Some of them travelled and spent a lot of money and time just
to be next to me.
Many of these girls wrote me hundreds of very long emails, spent most of the days texting me,
and also spent a lot of time making plans for a future next to me.
With about 6 of them I was in long term relationship. However me showing affection
or showing I care, resulted in them becoming cold and changing their priorities.
It worked only being cold, being busy, being away, generally not caring.
I do not know yet the right way, and that is what I am asking here,
how to settle down in a good LTR, and for her to want it and not leave if I accept it.
What should be the key steps? Thank you