Quote: (09-08-2018 12:53 PM)kaotic Wrote:
Quote: (09-07-2018 07:27 PM)Ballr Wrote:
Update
Just found out the guy she's standing up with is actually my first cousin. Talk about an awkward possibility. We just spoke over the phone. I had joked if he's looking for a wife.
Still not with it though, gents.
So what the hell is about then?
Meeting her parents? or getting AMOG'ed by your cousin?
I mean seriously there's some deep seeded insecurities here dude.
I can understand if you don't want to meet her parents in such a formal setting and they're type of parents you meet if you wanna be super serious with her or wife her up.
Yet this still comes back to not being happy she's "standing" with a guy at the wedding.
If you can't handle a girl of yours being in a wedding or event, then it's not about being "cucked" (that's OD redpill BS), it's actually about you own insecurities.
Then you make a joke to your cousin about looking for a wife?
You gotta stop being insecure and worrying dude, it's a wedding.
Your stance on attending the wedding and having a good time is spot on the best solution outside of dumping her. I'm truthfully considering it just because I've not been able to accept this. She's still on ignore, day 2 (day of wedding).
Wish I had posted here before yesterday. I may have ended up going to the wedding and disregarded the parental situation.
I had to look up what 'AMOG' meant and no that's not who I am. Not impressed, jealous, or envious of no other man. I'm the prize. Thing is, on a personal level we're all different in what we accept and don't accept. For example, you can agree with me that most guys don't like knowing elicit details of the woman's pasts and how many guys she slept with. It's very cringey. This is exactly how I can describe what I consider this to be for letting her go and do this.
She's the maid of honor for her best friend's wedding and all of this shit is common sense and stuff that goes on in every wedding. You're right. Am I supposed to ignore the fact that it pisses me off though?