True masters of game can read the situation and adjust accordingly.
I tend to go 80/20, but even that is perhaps too high and I really need to read each INDIVIDUAL interaction and adjust. I get called a 'player' and 'manwhore' a lot. So obviously I need to work on what vibes I am giving out and how they are being received and what she is feeling in that moment.
The difficultly for most guys is that when they get into a LTR/marriage, any Alpha characteristics are quickly erased by 100% Beta characteristics. They become pushovers, pussies, and then it's a very deep hole to dig out of. I'd even almost argue it's even more important to know game when you're in a LTR/marriage.
Instead of asking yourself "Is this Alpha?" you need to ask yourself "What behavior gives me the best chance of me succeeding?"
I tend to go 80/20, but even that is perhaps too high and I really need to read each INDIVIDUAL interaction and adjust. I get called a 'player' and 'manwhore' a lot. So obviously I need to work on what vibes I am giving out and how they are being received and what she is feeling in that moment.
The difficultly for most guys is that when they get into a LTR/marriage, any Alpha characteristics are quickly erased by 100% Beta characteristics. They become pushovers, pussies, and then it's a very deep hole to dig out of. I'd even almost argue it's even more important to know game when you're in a LTR/marriage.
Instead of asking yourself "Is this Alpha?" you need to ask yourself "What behavior gives me the best chance of me succeeding?"
"Once you've gotten the lay you have won."- Mufasa
"You Miss 100% of the shots you don't take"- Wayne Gretzky