Quote: (09-06-2018 10:22 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:
She didnt blow you off. She likes you but doesnt want you to think shes a ho. A girl that blows you off because shes not interested just ghosts
This happens with younger girls that have been sheltered.
With a slutty girl the attraction / comfort ratio can be unbalanced.
A bonafide cock jockey is good to go on 100 /0 attraction to comfort
A mid level slut can go at 80 /20
A "good girl" is going to need a more even balance of both attraction and comfort 60 / 40 or even 50 /50
Youre going too direct. Plausible deniability is your friend with a good girl
This is a classic "good girl" shit test.
Shit Test 101
She's looking for a boyfriend and she's afraid you aren't looking for a relationship.
So what would be the move here? 2 days after her last comment I decided to give it another shot and texted her "Going to be at [campus cafe] at about 4 today. Join me." She just said "No."
I got rid of her number after that, but there's a dinner for the transfer students tonight and she'll probably be there. Is it worth giving something a shot?