Quote: (08-26-2018 09:15 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:
600 dollars for one pop? You could BUY a wife for that kind of money in Asia. You could order her to suck the smegma off your dick, after no shower for a week, on command for that kind of money. Who cares if she might not be pretty. She prettier than a doll and a her hole is always wet and warm. Getting head from a doll is stupid. Even 600 for a real escort is a massive waste of money.
There is no excuse for this kind of of simping. This isn't 2005. Dudes should know better by now.
If you're beliefs don't allign with reality, question your facts.
Listen: I agree with you TravelerKai, I'm part of the old school of "Nut up and become a winner!" I did. You did. These kids can do it too.
So why aren't they?
I have a creeping suspicion that the sexual market is even worse than we realize - and given how dire our assessment is, that's saying something. What I'm noticing is the sheer greed amongst women. The inability to view men as individuals with any claim to autonomy or self actualization. Usually when you hear guys whine about this, they're talking about women who won't give them the time of day - so we say to them "Shave off the neckbeard, get swole, become a man of value." But I'm not looking at it from the loser side of the equation - I'm looking at it from the "winner's" side.
One of the things I've been noticing with the girls I'm dating is that they believe they have a right to me. This is hard to explain... let me try and put it into a metaphor. The look at me like a Sportsball hero, sexy badass with a mission in life. Their gina tingles when it's around me. But rather than seeing the whole person, and becoming part of my Sportsball world, they want to put me in a cage. They want me to quit Sportsball, they treat it as if it's a hobby, and they'll do anything in their power - lie, cry, emotionally manipulate - to get me onto a chain in their backyard.
It should go without saying that the moment they chain me up, they'll lose interest in me. Divorce would become inevitable.
This is more than girls wanting the sexy badass whose world they don't fit into; it's their utter unwillingness to realize that I'm a person with my own innate nature and drives, with a code I need to live by. As a man, I recognize their call to raise children, and am doing what I can to put myself into a position to financially support dependents. But they don't extend the same recognition to me; that it's wrong for them to try and curb my nature, to undermine it, and then to emotionally manipulate me into obedience.
They're incredibly greedy.
It's a subtle thing; it takes a while for you to pick up on it with any particular woman. You and I don't notice it as readily, because women are eager to mirror us. But eventually you see through the mirroring, and realize that she never considered any of your interests as valid. Everything she did that seemed to be caring was, in fact, just another piece of bait to lure you in.
I know I'm sounding all Black Pill and MGTOW. But a healthy relationship requires mutual respect, and I'm not seeing much of that in women these days. A woman who respects you will give you a blowjob, but a blowjob is not necessarily a sign of respect.
So if this is the sort of crap I'm dealing with... what are the rest of the guys experiencing?
This rampant self-centredness of the modern woman is worrisome.