[Tully Mars]

i am fine with a married guy that still has some individuality about him, is about raising his kids in a solid family, persues his own interests and is the man in the marriage. The problem is to many men let the women run the show, and bought into the fairy tale that once i am married my life will be great/complete.... I just dont see how being with anyone for 30-40 years sounds interesting, we are just not monagamous creatures??? To many men are worried about being alone and scared to pursue new adventures, bang younger hotter women, and end up just settling for the first relationship they have.