Used to have the same problem. With time I realized I was giving too much off a player vibe (i.e. all attraction and no comfort). Girls enjoyed the validation of getting teased, kinoed, and kissed during the date. But next day, upon reflecting coldly on the interaction, they realized they were just the latest piece of meat to cross my way.
I course corrected by mixing in some deep conversation with the fun and the teasing in order to "keep it more real". And this made the problem go away.
I course corrected by mixing in some deep conversation with the fun and the teasing in order to "keep it more real". And this made the problem go away.