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afc needs help... (but at the same time,don't)
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afc needs help... (but at the same time,don't)

There's two basic parts to this.

In uniform you get the attention from the skirts because it's taboo for them, and maybe the authority figure of a man in uniform can get some wet. Do be cautious though because I'm willing to bet most just enjoying flirting with danger if you get my drift.

The second part is you feel more comfortable while in the uniform because you feel like it supports you. It's easier to flirt with girls while under the protection of the uniform because you have your duty to hide behind. It's a crutch, provides a false sense of support, it allows you to feel more comfortable in your own skin, but don't ditch it as an approach method all together. It's about the same thing as liquid courage; it's not real courage but can be useful given the right twist.

So let's say the ball is already in motion, you're on duty, and you have a couple of chicks flirting with you. They're probably already buying into the authority figure in uniform taboo. If you had a good setup you can use it as a segway towards the next step. That step would be innocently inviting the girls to meet you somewhere later.

You: "I'm getting off duty in a bit, let's meet up at <some public place>. It'll be a lot of fun." - Making it something more special and out of the ordinary will increase the chances that the invitation will be accepted.

Or I would probably arrange something ahead of time with friends and have a wingman waiting.

You: "Me and the guys are going off duty in a bit. Meet us at <some public place>, it'll be fun." or blah, blah, or what else you can think of to make it more enticing (sobriety test drinking games which plays into the cop thing). Just don't go overboard.

Remember part of the illusion is that you're an authority figure so don't ask. You tell them what's up and they'll be missing out on a fun time with a pack of off duty cops. If they ever had a fantasy about cops this would work in your favour. So you use the uniform to your advantage, don't violate the ethics of being in uniform, and you've already established the tone of what to expect. So then you can go to your civies, continue the ruse, and scoop up numbers while off duty.

But there are so many variables to this you'll just have to take it in baby steps until you build up the confidence outside of the uniform to develop a solid game.

My ultimate recommendation is not to rely on the uniform all the time. You have get accustomed to being in your own skin, but I don't see anything wrong with using that to your advantage as a launching point.


P.S. I'm going to cock slap you if you're a flashlight cop.
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