Quote: (08-17-2018 12:00 AM)don_quixote Wrote:
There's much said in seduction communities about the importance of frame.
No doubt, frame is very important in showing women that you're in control of your own life and (to some extent) environment.
But how do we balance this out with agreeableness?
Some PUAs talk about how important it is to be warm and friendly so as to give the woman a feeling that you are attainable.
How to encapsulate both at once? Or is it a case of trying to guess what kind of woman she is, and calibrating the amount of frame control vs agreement that you give her?
"agreeableness" is a vaginal term. Its one of the reasons they say women don't get paid as much as men in the work place.
agreeable means you are inclined to agree with someone because subconsciously you want to just get along and don't want to offend anyone
To me it seems you are trying to merge being a "nice guy" with having frame and you are using some nonsense you heard a PUA say to justify it
Having frame doesn't mean pretending to be cold, being a hard ass. It means having confidence, self esteem and not letting women jerk you around with their emotions no matter what they throw at you
If you have frame you don't need to worry about when to be "warm" and "friendly" you will just be yourself and take whatever comes with it