[Jozi]

Yeah sounds like you won't feel liked/appreciated without them knowing a bunch of BS stories about you first. It's the same as guys with money or semi-fame making sure to brag about it as early on in the conversation as possible. The truth will set you free. These girls won't think you are a bad boy in a good way when you spout this BS to them. They might believe what you are saying is true, but they'll think you are a creep and that something is "off" about you. Being in a dangerous situation or a "bad boy" isn't always a positive. Congruence is the important thing. So if you're not actually a bad boy, don't try to act like one. You're not gonna pull it off.