I faced a similar scenario, albeit not quite NEET. I completed two postgrad degrees immediately post-undetgrad and was attempting to find a training contract - mind you, my undergrad degree is in a good area and from a great uni. There I was highly qualified almost too much so for an entry level position.
The NEET lifestyle generally perpetuates isolation and destroys motivation. I note that you get, on average, 3 hours of studying done a day with the remainder of it spent surfing online - I was similar. My advice is to get the fuck out of your house. Don't focus on pick up etc. just get out and engage woth your surroundings and people. Buy a cheap cup of coffee every morning and relax in the shop. Going shopping, take your time and engage with staff (especially great if you support local business - weekday mornings are great opportunities to have some pretty interesting chats with shop owners in your locale), socialise in the gym. Engage with Asian community in Aus instead of burying your head in a book etc.
In regard to the advice above, desexualise your intent. Focus on engaging socially with all not on seducing women - this should be a by-product.
On the psychological side:
a) Don't feel ashamed or be timid. There is absolutely nothing to be embarassed about;
b) Pump yourself up every morning - just try and cultivate a feeling of being full of energy and a can do spirit. Just try and feel those emotions through your body - as vague and inconcrete as that may sound.
It may sound like a case of "easier said than done" but I've been there bro.
The NEET lifestyle generally perpetuates isolation and destroys motivation. I note that you get, on average, 3 hours of studying done a day with the remainder of it spent surfing online - I was similar. My advice is to get the fuck out of your house. Don't focus on pick up etc. just get out and engage woth your surroundings and people. Buy a cheap cup of coffee every morning and relax in the shop. Going shopping, take your time and engage with staff (especially great if you support local business - weekday mornings are great opportunities to have some pretty interesting chats with shop owners in your locale), socialise in the gym. Engage with Asian community in Aus instead of burying your head in a book etc.
In regard to the advice above, desexualise your intent. Focus on engaging socially with all not on seducing women - this should be a by-product.
On the psychological side:
a) Don't feel ashamed or be timid. There is absolutely nothing to be embarassed about;
b) Pump yourself up every morning - just try and cultivate a feeling of being full of energy and a can do spirit. Just try and feel those emotions through your body - as vague and inconcrete as that may sound.
It may sound like a case of "easier said than done" but I've been there bro.