You’ve got it all wrong buddy.
You have to get to know HER until you feel you can predict her behavior, and the less she knows about you the better.
You should always remain a mystery—you’re a lover and possibly a protector down the road—not her little brother. She should hold you in admiration and awe and be afraid to ask you about yourself. If she ever does, then brief aloof answers are what you feed her.
If you love her like a child, she will return respect and admiration. That’s all you can ask. Don’t hope for her to understand you—no man should ever want that.
Women don’t want your soul, just your love. When they say you’re cold, unavailable, distant, or whatever complaint in those veins, they don’t mean they want to know you better, but rather that your love is not enough for them.
Love is doing the right thing even if it hurts her in the moment. Love is truly caring even if it means being harsh. Love is accepting that she doesn’t have the capacity to love you like you love her.
Women are mirrors that reflect the love you have for yourself—they have limited ability to create love or anything else for that matter.
Only men can create.
You have to get to know HER until you feel you can predict her behavior, and the less she knows about you the better.
You should always remain a mystery—you’re a lover and possibly a protector down the road—not her little brother. She should hold you in admiration and awe and be afraid to ask you about yourself. If she ever does, then brief aloof answers are what you feed her.
If you love her like a child, she will return respect and admiration. That’s all you can ask. Don’t hope for her to understand you—no man should ever want that.
Women don’t want your soul, just your love. When they say you’re cold, unavailable, distant, or whatever complaint in those veins, they don’t mean they want to know you better, but rather that your love is not enough for them.
Love is doing the right thing even if it hurts her in the moment. Love is truly caring even if it means being harsh. Love is accepting that she doesn’t have the capacity to love you like you love her.
Women are mirrors that reflect the love you have for yourself—they have limited ability to create love or anything else for that matter.
Only men can create.