Most likely she has been abused in her past, which is most often at the hands of someone she trusts. A LOT of pretty girls have weird shit happen to them, and in my experience, Asian girls more than others.
These girls can make absolutely amazing partners and mothers. Some of the best even, due in part to their disgust with how someone could hurt a child. They will latch on to a strong man, and while it can feel overwhelming if you like a lot of space, you can still make them feel safe and secure without the fear of abuse or abandonment. Remember, some abused girls are taken advantage of by an older man that they fear, yet love, at the same time. Its a confusing mental space for young girls, especially at her age where sex is becoming something more.
Sex. If you get the trust/fear/abandonment/safety/disgust under control, sex will get better. If she has a clit, she will enjoy sex. So as you build all of the above, you also build her into taking care of your needs. If you start at the beginning, which it sounds like you are, then this will be the replacement for all her fear and anxiety.
This is not an easy task, and if you just want pornstar sex with random nana sloots, you might just want to move on. But if you are looking for something more and enjoy putting in some effort for someone you care about, then the reward could be immense.
* I say can make great partners. But some women have been abused so bad that they have made blockers in their brain that would take some deep therapy to break. Many of the slootiest sloots I have known have had some dark shit happen to them and the only way they seem to be able to down play their trauma is lots of meaningless sex.
These girls can make absolutely amazing partners and mothers. Some of the best even, due in part to their disgust with how someone could hurt a child. They will latch on to a strong man, and while it can feel overwhelming if you like a lot of space, you can still make them feel safe and secure without the fear of abuse or abandonment. Remember, some abused girls are taken advantage of by an older man that they fear, yet love, at the same time. Its a confusing mental space for young girls, especially at her age where sex is becoming something more.
Sex. If you get the trust/fear/abandonment/safety/disgust under control, sex will get better. If she has a clit, she will enjoy sex. So as you build all of the above, you also build her into taking care of your needs. If you start at the beginning, which it sounds like you are, then this will be the replacement for all her fear and anxiety.
This is not an easy task, and if you just want pornstar sex with random nana sloots, you might just want to move on. But if you are looking for something more and enjoy putting in some effort for someone you care about, then the reward could be immense.
* I say can make great partners. But some women have been abused so bad that they have made blockers in their brain that would take some deep therapy to break. Many of the slootiest sloots I have known have had some dark shit happen to them and the only way they seem to be able to down play their trauma is lots of meaningless sex.