[Phil Asheo]

(11-30-2011 06:15 PM)whodat689 Wrote:  

(11-29-2011 01:03 AM)Amour Fou Wrote:  

I am a brazilian guy, used to brazilian girls.

I've been in US territory (Hawaii) for a while (3 months).

I've NEVER experienced so many flakes in my entire life.

You can complain about brazilian girls flaking all you want but it doesn't comes even near to what I've been experiencing over here.

Food for thought.

I found the brazilian girls to be much more flakey than U.S. girls. My first two dates setup with brazil girls they canceled on me.

First I met a chick at the mall who didn't speak any english but we communicated pretty well with my decent portuguese..we exchanged numbers and she texted me a lot, I then asked her out to dinner after she got off work 1 night....she replied simmm meu anjo! I thought I was in for sure but then that day few hrs before she said she couldn't make it and seemed dodgy after that

Second girl I began talking was much more high class....attended the richest university in the entire country of brazil, I was so stupid and didn't kiss fast the first night I met her but we talked and hit it off, she seemed like the type of girl who was hurt or didnt like brazilian guys machismo who did try to kiss her fast so I thought I was on the right track.........we exchange facebooks/numbers and she said she wanted to see me again and take me to a funk club...after that she seemed dodgy on facebook,etc

maybe she was one of those paranoid rich girls living in a bubble so it seemed....other than those (my first 2) I was fine but certainly gave the impression they were flakey

I just want to add, I notice a pattern of people complaining of flakeyness, just be warned that if you wait girls get very flakey very quickly, you have to close down on a girl as fast as possible otherwise if she is unsure her unsureness will grow until she starts to think you're not that into me so I'm not that into you (yes it is insecure and stupid, but thats how they think). The whole 2 days things, non sense, why would you wait for someone you obviously like and they like you back.