Quote: (06-29-2018 08:43 AM)Davis Wrote:
Quote: (06-29-2018 08:04 AM)kuqezi Wrote:
Confidence!
Walk like you have the biggest dick in the city.
Strong eye contact.
You own this damn street!
LINUX has a dead on description on the above, I will try to find it. Basically this is part of you, you don't game anymore, it's just who you are!
Thanks for the hint. I am not sure if this post by LINUX is the one that you are referring to.
Excellent post by LINUX in any case.
Quote: (01-16-2018 04:58 PM)LINUX Wrote:
As the years passed, I threw everything I thought I knew about game away and most of the guys on the forum that I'm close to have also.
Now it's a way of life, saying what you want, maintaining confidence, having options, and being real with yourself and with women. That's not "game" because it doesn't have to be performed or shut off, it's our way of life 24/7 and there are no illusions or masks that we walk around wearing. We are just grown men walking around finding women we want to either fuck, have a mini relationships with, or make memories with and we tell them that straight-up.
Game is sort of like a "Fake it until you Make it" thing. When someone really turns into a masculine man and knows what works and what doesn't, the feeling that he has when talking to women is much deeper than over-analytical nonsense because he lives in the moment and he's real. He's not attached to an outcome like a PUA wanting a phone number or notch, he's attached to the process, and the process is going after he wants without apology, and that's what women are really attracted to. They've been telling men how to get into their pants for the past 20 goddamn years and men have been unable to listen. What have they always said, "I want a man with confidence."
Back to the masculine and confidence thing, all men should aim to get there and they will get there by experience, failure, and overcoming most of your insecurities. Game should eventually be thrown out the window in lieu of something more real and masculine. Life teaches you that not books. It can't be learned, it has to be experienced and felt. If years and years go by and you're becoming a man more analytical with game regarding what to say, how to say it, and what to say in the future, then something is off. But if you can walk into a club and within 10 minutes know the women who like you, the women who want you but aren't available, as well as the women who like you but are passing on you because their friend likes you, then you're starting to get it. Then it just takes eye contact and smile, and straight up say what you want, "I want to go take a bath with you," and she replies, "Ok" That's not game, that's a man saying what he wants without being attached to the answer because his happiness and freedom is more important than trying to impress some broad with some bullshit and that in itself is what we call 'confidence' and what women are really attracted to.
YES!
100% THIS!
Thanks a lot for finding it!