Quote: (05-12-2018 06:00 PM)Dillinger Wrote:
Is it really even doable for a relative newb to hit the bars and clubs by himself? Don't >>>they<<< look at you different if you don't have any friends with you?
Perhaps you should ask "them" if they look differently at you...
hint: There's your opener. Have an explanation, preferably one that raises your status in the moment and transition to other chit chat asap.
If I were to weigh up success from lone wolfing vs fails from being cock blocked by friends ("wingmen") the scale would tilt *heavily* towards more success going solo.
Papaya Tapper is 100% right about wingmen being a liability UNLESS they're more experienced than you and are aware of themselves if they get cockblocky...