One of the first rules of the Red Pill and Game is:
THE GIRL/GIRLFRIEND/WIFE DOES NOT HAVE TO KNOW MUCH! Even a wife does not have to know!
You definitely blew it big-time. You could have made up some excuse about getting to know her better, by making lots of sex talk about how you will fuck her good and in what positions next time around - just not this time. You could have even made her come with your fingers and left it at that.
Now there is not much to be made of this - if she does not respond, then it's over for now. If you meet her again someday, then you can treat it as a new set - approach, joke, ask her out again.
Inviting her over for bbq is all good and well, but then you take a step back from already having had a date. That is friendzone game and not ideal. But hey - go ahead.
THE GIRL/GIRLFRIEND/WIFE DOES NOT HAVE TO KNOW MUCH! Even a wife does not have to know!
You definitely blew it big-time. You could have made up some excuse about getting to know her better, by making lots of sex talk about how you will fuck her good and in what positions next time around - just not this time. You could have even made her come with your fingers and left it at that.
Now there is not much to be made of this - if she does not respond, then it's over for now. If you meet her again someday, then you can treat it as a new set - approach, joke, ask her out again.
Inviting her over for bbq is all good and well, but then you take a step back from already having had a date. That is friendzone game and not ideal. But hey - go ahead.