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(04-18-2018 08:47 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  

I'm socially bold
I can speak with everyone
I have no problem to speak in front of hundreds of people
I am good at making conversations

So my game is good per se.

But if an attractive girl is clearly interested I can convince myself that she isn't interested or that approaching would be a bad idea.

I'm no longer convinced when the girl goes cold or is gone.

I'm basically a pussy who don't realise until it's too late that I should have acted differently.

You can't just say "always go for it" or whatever as all girls shouldn't be approached. I prefer not to spam approach.


Any ideas how not to be intimidated by the fact that the girl shows interest?

This is a problem that goes away with practise, but that doesn't necessarily mean you have to spam approach random girls to get rid of it, or that that is a good idea.

I don't think you're intimidated because the girl is showing interest. If a 3 shows interest in you, are you intimidated or do you feel in control of that situation? I would imagine you would probably are not intimidated in that situation, so you are probably intimidated because the girl is attractive.

You will become less intimidated by attractive girls if you don't think of them as that attractive. Think of some of their flaws, maybe mental flaws rather than physical.

The other way is to get more experience being around attractive women, but then you will start to think that way naturally anyway, so it's the same thing.

Basically, don't put the pussy on a pedastal.

Another thing is most of the time if a girl is talking to you, smiling and laughing a bit too much at your jokes. You can assume that she is interested.

It's better to assume she is interested when she's not, than to assume she's not interested when she is.

However just because she's interested doesn't mean you stop running game, and you can just start making out with her and then invite her home for sex. Hell no.

You still need sexual tension. This is extremely important, if both people are interested in each other and they both know it, it can kill the tension and then there will be nothing.

So when you have a girl showing you clear signs of interest, don't reciprocate your interest too much! A little is fine, none at all will convince her you're not interested, so somewhere in the middle.

At that point you just have to be cool and still use plausibly deniable excuses to get her to your place.

It's a great position to be in if you know she's interested but she doesn't know if you are interested.

It's like you're playing poker and you know exactly what cards you both have, and as long as you stay cool and don't get too excited so she can read your emotions and figure out what you're thinking, you will easily win.