Stop pursuing girls at work - I dont give a shit if they work in different departments. This solves your #1 and #2.
No it's not the nice guy scenario, but you didn't adjust your game at all for this scenario.
Her calling you mean was teasing you, and you could've parlayed helping her into favors for you or an actual date.
Walks don't solve anything if you keep doing them and get no results - you don't even have taking girls on date right.
You can't accomplish shit in 20 minutes if you don't have any skills to begin with.
Telling a girl sit and be quiet like a dog playfully isn't nice guy game.
Why the hell would you play nice guy game to begin with? If you're inexperienced like yourself, this is a direct path to the friendzone.
She admitted stalking you online so you'd fall back into her orbit of talking to her.
You asked her out, your guy said she wasn't excited, so you didn't follow through, that's not beta/alpha.
Get that beta/alpha bullshit out of your head, the world isn't black and white dude.
She put herself in your way because you didnt follow through on plans and you didnt respond back to her.
So she went out of her way to say hi to you, just like a dog getting a treat so the dog stays loyal to the owner.
THE SIGNS YOU SAW AREN'T SIGNS AT ALL - she was literally flirting with you to get attention.
With girls it's real simple:
1. Approach them, game them, number close.
2. Use text game sparingly, set up a day place and time to meet up (don't do lunch or dinner, meet for drinks or some place fun)
3. Game them on the date, let them do all the talking, give them leading questions, flirt, do some kino - see how they react.
4. End the date with a makeout, or get them back to your place or theirs.
With 1 and 2 you automatically know if a girl is interested in you by giving you her number and agreeing to meet up with you.
With 3 and 4 is where you find out if the girl is actually attracted to you emotionally/sexually/etc this is where games come into play. As in what you say, how she reacts, physical touching, her body language etc.
Always accept a girls actions as the truth, NOT her words.
Also, for god sakes please take time writing out your thoughts, you're all over the place and constantly misspelling.
No it's not the nice guy scenario, but you didn't adjust your game at all for this scenario.
Her calling you mean was teasing you, and you could've parlayed helping her into favors for you or an actual date.
Walks don't solve anything if you keep doing them and get no results - you don't even have taking girls on date right.
You can't accomplish shit in 20 minutes if you don't have any skills to begin with.
Telling a girl sit and be quiet like a dog playfully isn't nice guy game.
Why the hell would you play nice guy game to begin with? If you're inexperienced like yourself, this is a direct path to the friendzone.
She admitted stalking you online so you'd fall back into her orbit of talking to her.
You asked her out, your guy said she wasn't excited, so you didn't follow through, that's not beta/alpha.
Get that beta/alpha bullshit out of your head, the world isn't black and white dude.
She put herself in your way because you didnt follow through on plans and you didnt respond back to her.
So she went out of her way to say hi to you, just like a dog getting a treat so the dog stays loyal to the owner.
THE SIGNS YOU SAW AREN'T SIGNS AT ALL - she was literally flirting with you to get attention.
With girls it's real simple:
1. Approach them, game them, number close.
2. Use text game sparingly, set up a day place and time to meet up (don't do lunch or dinner, meet for drinks or some place fun)
3. Game them on the date, let them do all the talking, give them leading questions, flirt, do some kino - see how they react.
4. End the date with a makeout, or get them back to your place or theirs.
With 1 and 2 you automatically know if a girl is interested in you by giving you her number and agreeing to meet up with you.
With 3 and 4 is where you find out if the girl is actually attracted to you emotionally/sexually/etc this is where games come into play. As in what you say, how she reacts, physical touching, her body language etc.
Always accept a girls actions as the truth, NOT her words.
Also, for god sakes please take time writing out your thoughts, you're all over the place and constantly misspelling.