Thanks guys - I appreciate the responses.
No I'm not trolling, and yes, I realise now how I'm being silly.
Over the majority of our four years I had organised literally all of our social life, and (after some huge investing losses and excessive hours working on my business) I didn't have the energy to also create our social life. Once I stopped organising stuff, our relationship became quite boring.
I blamed her for it, and also was romanticised my previous PUA lifestyle. I also lost sexual interest, even though she's very attractive. We had sex once every two months, and that's with me not really wanting it but doing it for her.
How do you guys deal with this?
No I'm not trolling, and yes, I realise now how I'm being silly.
Over the majority of our four years I had organised literally all of our social life, and (after some huge investing losses and excessive hours working on my business) I didn't have the energy to also create our social life. Once I stopped organising stuff, our relationship became quite boring.
I blamed her for it, and also was romanticised my previous PUA lifestyle. I also lost sexual interest, even though she's very attractive. We had sex once every two months, and that's with me not really wanting it but doing it for her.
How do you guys deal with this?