Sexual polarity is what makes a woman attracted to you. The masculine and feminine tension that allows a woman to go to bed with you, and start a relationship with you, doesn't work for long-term. Guys want to talk about "frame" all the time but they fail to understand this concept. It's why most of us who get 50+ lays a year are complete shit when it comes to relationships.
What can you do? Become more venerable, allowing yourself to eventually get hurt or find a woman who needs you to survive, what many 3rd world pussy hopping guys do, which will probably not happen in the USA, or date a woman further on the masculine side of the scale "not expecting much sexual tension and sexual enjoyment" which will lead to a bland relationship.
Or you can just except things like they are and stop trying to fight it and enjoy making the memories "Short-term" until you find a woman worthy enough for you to lower the walls and make sacrifices -- which may never happen or could happen tomorrow.
What can you do? Become more venerable, allowing yourself to eventually get hurt or find a woman who needs you to survive, what many 3rd world pussy hopping guys do, which will probably not happen in the USA, or date a woman further on the masculine side of the scale "not expecting much sexual tension and sexual enjoyment" which will lead to a bland relationship.
Or you can just except things like they are and stop trying to fight it and enjoy making the memories "Short-term" until you find a woman worthy enough for you to lower the walls and make sacrifices -- which may never happen or could happen tomorrow.