Women do this all the time to guys, so what is her problem other that her feelings are hurt. Chick sounds crazy to me anyways given that she apparently is just leaving an abusive relationship, living at home, and already got the clingy vibe going on with one date. Which begs the question, how does she know this list belongs to her, if she only saw him "Once?" She may be one of many plates that this dude is spinning. Bet that would mind-fuck her even more than the list.
"Stop playing by 1950's rules when everyone else is playing by 1984."
- Leonard D Neubache