Quote: (11-25-2017 05:40 PM)S3K2 Wrote:
A lot of advice on this board is not what we want to hear, like taking the red pill. However, It is sound advice in your best interest, Woman is fickle and just because you "reframed" doesn't mean you're going to get her out on a date. Matter a fact I can almost guarantee you she is going to flake on you again. She is using you to show off to her friends what a "creep" you are. If we are taking the time to respond it is probably in your best interest to put the advice in action.
Maybe not even using you for that much.
A lesson a bunch of us have learned is that for women you match with online, until you meet up you're not a person, you're just digital bits on a screen. You haven't "turned her on" except in the sense that you are an interesting smartphone game, a handheld form of prosaic pornography.
That explains a lot of the flaking over and above the standard flake baseline - they have a dozen other ways to stimulate themselves any given day (including options on the swipe apps) and there's no sense of commitment to another person's time.
You have to view them mentally as completely imaginary beings or bots until you see them in meatspace and can work a real human connection. That's exactly how they view you.