no harm delaying the move, you're damn right
when I was single, I would deliberately not make moves on close women friends I found attractive. Some of you may think this is anti-intuitive. The thing was I had lots of action happening with girls I hardly knew. The result of the new hot girl looking in and the other girls looking out of the social cirlce at the new girls was amazing. Everybody thinks you have options, and everyone is super comfortable to hang around you.
Chumps don't get this. THey just burn every lead to its bitter end.
I see it in sales. The hard closer.
you want to heat the center of your social circle as a foundation for fun and meeting other women, not resolve it into girls who will and won't sleep with you.
when I was single, I would deliberately not make moves on close women friends I found attractive. Some of you may think this is anti-intuitive. The thing was I had lots of action happening with girls I hardly knew. The result of the new hot girl looking in and the other girls looking out of the social cirlce at the new girls was amazing. Everybody thinks you have options, and everyone is super comfortable to hang around you.
Chumps don't get this. THey just burn every lead to its bitter end.
I see it in sales. The hard closer.
you want to heat the center of your social circle as a foundation for fun and meeting other women, not resolve it into girls who will and won't sleep with you.
"For the true meaning of victory ask the defeated warrior"