There is some good advice above once you have taken the red pill, but I don't think you have swallowed it yet.
You should read Hooligan Harry's gold digger experiment thread, some of the marriage fiasco threads, and then the SA threads. Spend a little time on SA and you'll realize the are all sluts, AWALT, etc.
Only then will the practical advice above take root. You are not ready for it for whatever reason.
Most guys who have problems in game either don't have inner confidence, outer style, fail to believe game works, or don't have game. If you read Neil Strass' book he was a loser in so many ways, short, balding, ugly, and trassformed himself. It was a very long journey for him because of where he started, but he was able to do it because he saw that game worked.
But unlike you, no one had to convince him to want it.
You could read or even practice allthe best advice in the world but until you want it it will be wasted.
I have not read his books but Rollo Tomassi writes about the psychology behind red pill. If you haven't read his books that might be the place for you next. Hank Moody above provides an excellent outline of what to do when you are ready. When you are ready, you have a huge leg up because you won't have to fix your life, economics, inner game, etc. as much as most guys.
You should read Hooligan Harry's gold digger experiment thread, some of the marriage fiasco threads, and then the SA threads. Spend a little time on SA and you'll realize the are all sluts, AWALT, etc.
Only then will the practical advice above take root. You are not ready for it for whatever reason.
Most guys who have problems in game either don't have inner confidence, outer style, fail to believe game works, or don't have game. If you read Neil Strass' book he was a loser in so many ways, short, balding, ugly, and trassformed himself. It was a very long journey for him because of where he started, but he was able to do it because he saw that game worked.
But unlike you, no one had to convince him to want it.
You could read or even practice allthe best advice in the world but until you want it it will be wasted.
I have not read his books but Rollo Tomassi writes about the psychology behind red pill. If you haven't read his books that might be the place for you next. Hank Moody above provides an excellent outline of what to do when you are ready. When you are ready, you have a huge leg up because you won't have to fix your life, economics, inner game, etc. as much as most guys.