[Fortis]

Go out and see what works. I find that I'm naturally a bit aloof so I actually don't go hard on assshole game since it comes across as far too abrasive. If you're naturally extroverted, then try being a bit "cooler." Honestly, though, you'll need to see what works for you. There is no real ideal. I know chatty cathys who smash tons of girls and I know strong, silent types who also do well.