Go out to grab a bite to eat and a beer.
End up at another bar after only eating a salad at the first one and sit next to a cute woman who I proceed to hit it off with and talk to for 45 minutes straight. Out of character for me to be sure and the only reason I was even able to get that far is because of this forum.
I order another beer as she cashes out to call it an evening. Then I wimp out and don't ask for her number before she leaves which makes it awkward as she gets up and leaves..
/facepalm
At least I realized as a result of that that I could actually talk to someone if I would simply open my mouth. I just wasn't really thinking about what I actually wanted out of that interaction before the end of it and wasn't pushing it forward to set up for a 2nd meeting.
Time to go talk to 5 more women.
Change isn't easy but it's possible.
End up at another bar after only eating a salad at the first one and sit next to a cute woman who I proceed to hit it off with and talk to for 45 minutes straight. Out of character for me to be sure and the only reason I was even able to get that far is because of this forum.
I order another beer as she cashes out to call it an evening. Then I wimp out and don't ask for her number before she leaves which makes it awkward as she gets up and leaves..
/facepalm
At least I realized as a result of that that I could actually talk to someone if I would simply open my mouth. I just wasn't really thinking about what I actually wanted out of that interaction before the end of it and wasn't pushing it forward to set up for a 2nd meeting.
Time to go talk to 5 more women.
Change isn't easy but it's possible.