I searched for this and didn't see much on it so wanted to start a discussion so that I could gather more ideas for how to Help add more value for the women I date, want to date, or spend time with. Also, I was curious about other training methods that men use.
So this topic stems from a couple different things and is best illustrated by examples:
1) Sexually - I've met women that are great at giving BJ's and women that are not as good at it. It would seem like the ones that are good were trained by an Ex at some point to be really good at doing it (or self-taught). I never trained any of my exes to get better and just kind of enjoyed what they provided instead. I feel like this is something where I can derive a lot of value-add from the girls I'm seeing by investing a little bit in them.
Additionally, any sexual training such as learning how to ride really well. One of my past FWB was very very good at riding me. However, all of the girls I've been seeing after her aren't as good and I've tried some light training methods such as small adjustments but nothing too severe to make those substantial changes (such as showing them how it's done properly in porn). I was wondering if other guys do this and if women react positively to it.
2) Mentally - This can be a plethora of things but I was wondering if other men helped their women with self-esteem/confidence or any other mental attributes. Do other people try to get women to see their point of view or just leave it alone?
Daddy Game Method - This is one of the classic examples of what I would like to learn from this thread. I read the thread on Daddy game and having the girls call me Daddy and I've gotten positive reactions from it and can see how this can mentally train a girl to be more loyal towards you.
I was also wondering about additional things that people may do to mentally train a girl to be compatible with your lifestyle/mindset.
3) Life - Well my target market is typically 18-24 (I'm 26), so some of these girls may be in college and undecided with what they want to do. Sometimes I offer them guidance on jobs such as pharmacists, dentists, real estate agent, modeling, etc. depending on how smart I think they are, work ethic, etc. But at the same time, I'm a little bit conflicted because if it doesn't work out, the blame could later come back to me or if they hate their job. Also, sometimes I'm unsure if I should influence their life strongly like that, or let them be and take their natural course.
Gym - This is a part of life and I definitely understand that most guys probably want their LTR to hit the gym and help them ignite that process if needed. However, what about Long term friends with benefits if you think they'll be around a while but not good enough to marry? Is it worth making that investment into teaching them?
TLDR; Im wondering what investments are worth making into women such as teaching them how to workout, or career advice, sexual advice, etc. and wether that advice is worth it only on long term, short term, medium term, or just all women.
Another facet is I've got a girl thats an 8 in looks and very moldable and open to learning about anything. I feel like a lot of girls are open to learning like this, and I was wondering what all she needs to be taught to turn into a great LTR. Such as cooking and how to go about it.
So this topic stems from a couple different things and is best illustrated by examples:
1) Sexually - I've met women that are great at giving BJ's and women that are not as good at it. It would seem like the ones that are good were trained by an Ex at some point to be really good at doing it (or self-taught). I never trained any of my exes to get better and just kind of enjoyed what they provided instead. I feel like this is something where I can derive a lot of value-add from the girls I'm seeing by investing a little bit in them.
Additionally, any sexual training such as learning how to ride really well. One of my past FWB was very very good at riding me. However, all of the girls I've been seeing after her aren't as good and I've tried some light training methods such as small adjustments but nothing too severe to make those substantial changes (such as showing them how it's done properly in porn). I was wondering if other guys do this and if women react positively to it.
2) Mentally - This can be a plethora of things but I was wondering if other men helped their women with self-esteem/confidence or any other mental attributes. Do other people try to get women to see their point of view or just leave it alone?
Daddy Game Method - This is one of the classic examples of what I would like to learn from this thread. I read the thread on Daddy game and having the girls call me Daddy and I've gotten positive reactions from it and can see how this can mentally train a girl to be more loyal towards you.
I was also wondering about additional things that people may do to mentally train a girl to be compatible with your lifestyle/mindset.
3) Life - Well my target market is typically 18-24 (I'm 26), so some of these girls may be in college and undecided with what they want to do. Sometimes I offer them guidance on jobs such as pharmacists, dentists, real estate agent, modeling, etc. depending on how smart I think they are, work ethic, etc. But at the same time, I'm a little bit conflicted because if it doesn't work out, the blame could later come back to me or if they hate their job. Also, sometimes I'm unsure if I should influence their life strongly like that, or let them be and take their natural course.
Gym - This is a part of life and I definitely understand that most guys probably want their LTR to hit the gym and help them ignite that process if needed. However, what about Long term friends with benefits if you think they'll be around a while but not good enough to marry? Is it worth making that investment into teaching them?
TLDR; Im wondering what investments are worth making into women such as teaching them how to workout, or career advice, sexual advice, etc. and wether that advice is worth it only on long term, short term, medium term, or just all women.
Another facet is I've got a girl thats an 8 in looks and very moldable and open to learning about anything. I feel like a lot of girls are open to learning like this, and I was wondering what all she needs to be taught to turn into a great LTR. Such as cooking and how to go about it.