The minute you can't feel anything, is the minute you are dead. Don't be afraid of your pair bonding ability, celebrate it.
Its how we raise kids that need a decade or more of parental care to survive in our complex world, we are a high offspring investment species, and thats the mechanism that makes it happen.
Having feelings, and being a beta pussy are two different things however. The real struggle is to maintain frame when you have strong emotions and investment.
Enjoy the feels, but carefully monitor your frame and don't slip into being a hen pecked beta pussy.
Its how we raise kids that need a decade or more of parental care to survive in our complex world, we are a high offspring investment species, and thats the mechanism that makes it happen.
Having feelings, and being a beta pussy are two different things however. The real struggle is to maintain frame when you have strong emotions and investment.
Enjoy the feels, but carefully monitor your frame and don't slip into being a hen pecked beta pussy.