Quote: (07-17-2017 09:12 PM)kinjutsu Wrote:
She will feel weird if you basically ghost her after setting up the details, which I've noticed increases the chances of her flaking out.
Agree 100%.
Unless the date is just a few hours away (it's usually a few days away) it's important to keep her engaged and build that subconscious obligation/want for her to come along. Ghosting her will likely lead to flaking, especially if she's equal or higher value. Flaking is already an issue just because of the world we live in - ghosting her just hands her the rationale/excuse to do so, on a silver platter.
Who I am is just the habit of what I always was, and who I'll be is the result