OP, you're at a similar point in life where I was 2 years ago, so I can relate. It's tough getting out of a rut if you're a late bloomer - the older we get the more difficult it is for our brains to adapt to radical changes in personality, ways of thinking etc.
What caught my attention was your issue with your hair; you mentioned you are using some product for averting hair loss. I say fuck that and embrace your baldness. You can easily divert attention from your receding hairline by being in shape, sporting some kind of facial hair and wearing nice clothes. Look at Jason Statham for example. He's 50 and losing his hair. Did that stop him at anything? Of course not.
Here's a neat article you should read, it'll give you some good tips about hairstyles:
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/07/14...lding-men/
What caught my attention was your issue with your hair; you mentioned you are using some product for averting hair loss. I say fuck that and embrace your baldness. You can easily divert attention from your receding hairline by being in shape, sporting some kind of facial hair and wearing nice clothes. Look at Jason Statham for example. He's 50 and losing his hair. Did that stop him at anything? Of course not.
Here's a neat article you should read, it'll give you some good tips about hairstyles:
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2010/07/14...lding-men/