I want to start by saying that I’m in my mid 20’s, living in a big city (2million+ citizens) in Western Europe, always did night game and always liked to party, drink, stay out until late and have fun with my friends.
Lately, though, I find myself considering switching from nightgame to daygame (and social circle game) with increasing frequency.
The reason is that I find the competition during the night at clubs enormously higher than during the day.
I can walk around my city during the day and see girls looking at me, smiling and looking around I don’t see much of a competition from the average guy.
That all change during the night because in any decent club you’ll find tons of hot guys hanging out and approaching girls and the girls have all the attention for them. The ration girls/guys in my country is also very bad and that doesn’t help either.
It’s like normal guys you see during the day don’t even bother to go out and pay a cover (20€ where I live) to enter a good club, they prefer to have a beer with their friends at a local bar (especially recently) and meet girls through their social circle without having to deal with the harsh competition in clubs.
So it’s like in practice there is an auto-selection mechanism where only good looking dudes with high SMV go to clubs making your chances to hook up with a hot chick very low.
Online game isn’t much better….on Tinder especially where girls choose the guy to hook up with based on the hottest guy they can match with.
Of course there is much more potential to date cute girls in environment where the competition is less fierce, so day game and social circle game are without a doubt better options (also your budget would benefit by not having to spend on cover and drinks).
Day game is very nerve wrecking though because it’s not that socially accepted to hit on girls walking by or sitting in a cafe.
And social circle game is good but getting inside good social circle can be hard.
I’d like to know your perspective on this and, if you practiced both, how your results changed from night game to day game. I’m interested especially if you managed to date more beautiful girls and more traditional (less shallow and slutty).
Lately, though, I find myself considering switching from nightgame to daygame (and social circle game) with increasing frequency.
The reason is that I find the competition during the night at clubs enormously higher than during the day.
I can walk around my city during the day and see girls looking at me, smiling and looking around I don’t see much of a competition from the average guy.
That all change during the night because in any decent club you’ll find tons of hot guys hanging out and approaching girls and the girls have all the attention for them. The ration girls/guys in my country is also very bad and that doesn’t help either.
It’s like normal guys you see during the day don’t even bother to go out and pay a cover (20€ where I live) to enter a good club, they prefer to have a beer with their friends at a local bar (especially recently) and meet girls through their social circle without having to deal with the harsh competition in clubs.
So it’s like in practice there is an auto-selection mechanism where only good looking dudes with high SMV go to clubs making your chances to hook up with a hot chick very low.
Online game isn’t much better….on Tinder especially where girls choose the guy to hook up with based on the hottest guy they can match with.
Of course there is much more potential to date cute girls in environment where the competition is less fierce, so day game and social circle game are without a doubt better options (also your budget would benefit by not having to spend on cover and drinks).
Day game is very nerve wrecking though because it’s not that socially accepted to hit on girls walking by or sitting in a cafe.
And social circle game is good but getting inside good social circle can be hard.
I’d like to know your perspective on this and, if you practiced both, how your results changed from night game to day game. I’m interested especially if you managed to date more beautiful girls and more traditional (less shallow and slutty).