In our modern age, there has never been a better time to be a player. Men who have the right combination of Game, looks and bankroll can have access to quality and quantity of diverse women, all over the world. Affordable travel, dating apps, accessible knowledge of Game and society’s normalization of fast sexual encounters places today’s player in a position that movie stars of yesteryears would envy. One can argue that it has never been easier to get laid in contemporary times. With such conditions in our favor, why are men feeling so disillusioned with women?
There are many answers to this paradox ranging from man’s desire for traditional women to the unfair treatment of men in the western world. The deeper truth lies at the core of men and women’s nature, which is as old as our species.
“Nature’s first gold is green”. Youth is favored in nature in all species. Nothing is more certain than the value nature places on youth and beauty in women. A young, beautiful woman dictates terms and is in the position of selector related to sexual choice. She has the world by its balls and if she is smart, understands the power she yields in selecting her sexual partners. However, this positon in the sexual marketplace is finite and predicated on her attractiveness and ephemeral youth.
Despite all we have learned in the Mansopshere about Game and seduction, women are still the gatekeepers of sex and relationships. They dictate the terms when they are young and desirable.
This is a fundamental law related to women. The second law is directly related to man’s misfortune. Once women use nature’s endowments to select a man, she naturally has an instinct for children. At the moment of conception, all of her energy and focus is directly at her offspring. Men play second fiddle from this time forward and their sole expectation is to provide for the family. We only need to look at modern divorce statistics as evidence of this. Most divorces are initiated by women, largely due to financial reasons.
Even before children, a woman's love and affection for her man takes a back-seat to the relationships with friends and social standing in society.
The most difficult Red Pill for men to swallow is that they will never be loved, enough. If we were lucky, we were showered by love and affection by our mother. This relationship is paramount in our lives and shapes the basis for our Romantic relationships with women, forever. Whether conscious of it or not, we spend the rest of our adult lives searching for this unconditional love. Our misfortune is that we will never find this love from a woman. Brain chemistry and endorphins trick us into believing we have procured this love. In fact, the love a man receives from a woman is nothing but Conditional.
Red Pill truths are not always reported in science, however, Social Exchange Theory explains this wisdom quite well. It asserts that relationships are not predicated on love and commitment, but rather and equal change of relational benefits. I think the most difficult Red Pill to accept is that women will never fully commit to us in the way we expect or tantamount to our commitment to them.
Men are in fact the true romantics 99% of the most popular love songs are written by men. We can blame feminism, hyperglamy of women, smartphones, and social media, but our modern disillusionment is an ancient symptom.
True Red Pill awakening is accepting the world for what it is. There is a reluctance in the Manosphere for using the word “love”. Does it make us less masculine? Weaker? Or is our reluctance based on a painful, old truth? Evidence of this pain is observed in art, poetry, literature and music throughout history.
Our fundamental plight is that we will never be loved and valued by a woman as much as we want. Sexual conquests feed the ego and make us feel good, but it is a short-lived gratification. Nevertheless, it is useful tool for distraction on the love and affection that we seek. Man’s misfortune lies in the reality that a woman will never love you as much as you love her.
As masculine men, finding meaning and purpose in life is our mission, not the procurement of the love we seek from a woman.
There are many answers to this paradox ranging from man’s desire for traditional women to the unfair treatment of men in the western world. The deeper truth lies at the core of men and women’s nature, which is as old as our species.
“Nature’s first gold is green”. Youth is favored in nature in all species. Nothing is more certain than the value nature places on youth and beauty in women. A young, beautiful woman dictates terms and is in the position of selector related to sexual choice. She has the world by its balls and if she is smart, understands the power she yields in selecting her sexual partners. However, this positon in the sexual marketplace is finite and predicated on her attractiveness and ephemeral youth.
Despite all we have learned in the Mansopshere about Game and seduction, women are still the gatekeepers of sex and relationships. They dictate the terms when they are young and desirable.
This is a fundamental law related to women. The second law is directly related to man’s misfortune. Once women use nature’s endowments to select a man, she naturally has an instinct for children. At the moment of conception, all of her energy and focus is directly at her offspring. Men play second fiddle from this time forward and their sole expectation is to provide for the family. We only need to look at modern divorce statistics as evidence of this. Most divorces are initiated by women, largely due to financial reasons.
Even before children, a woman's love and affection for her man takes a back-seat to the relationships with friends and social standing in society.
The most difficult Red Pill for men to swallow is that they will never be loved, enough. If we were lucky, we were showered by love and affection by our mother. This relationship is paramount in our lives and shapes the basis for our Romantic relationships with women, forever. Whether conscious of it or not, we spend the rest of our adult lives searching for this unconditional love. Our misfortune is that we will never find this love from a woman. Brain chemistry and endorphins trick us into believing we have procured this love. In fact, the love a man receives from a woman is nothing but Conditional.
Red Pill truths are not always reported in science, however, Social Exchange Theory explains this wisdom quite well. It asserts that relationships are not predicated on love and commitment, but rather and equal change of relational benefits. I think the most difficult Red Pill to accept is that women will never fully commit to us in the way we expect or tantamount to our commitment to them.
Men are in fact the true romantics 99% of the most popular love songs are written by men. We can blame feminism, hyperglamy of women, smartphones, and social media, but our modern disillusionment is an ancient symptom.
True Red Pill awakening is accepting the world for what it is. There is a reluctance in the Manosphere for using the word “love”. Does it make us less masculine? Weaker? Or is our reluctance based on a painful, old truth? Evidence of this pain is observed in art, poetry, literature and music throughout history.
Our fundamental plight is that we will never be loved and valued by a woman as much as we want. Sexual conquests feed the ego and make us feel good, but it is a short-lived gratification. Nevertheless, it is useful tool for distraction on the love and affection that we seek. Man’s misfortune lies in the reality that a woman will never love you as much as you love her.
As masculine men, finding meaning and purpose in life is our mission, not the procurement of the love we seek from a woman.