Came here to vent. I have been messaging people that I regard as friends to organise footy tipping leagues, try to keep in touch, ask them to come out to a bar for a drink, catch up for a coffee, join me a sporting match, have a short conversation via text.
Some people don't even reply? Others just say thanks but they're busy, but keep me in mind and ask again in future (haha what?).
I have been pouring out energy to keep in touch and maintain friendships but it doesn't seem to be getting returned?
I don't want to live like this! So what's the solution?
I work around 55-60 hours a week and have each weekend off. I try to spend it with people but most weekends I sepnd on my own.
I'm sending out messages on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday trying to reach out and set things up for the weekend but get knocked back and end up having not much on or staying in?
Some people don't even reply? Others just say thanks but they're busy, but keep me in mind and ask again in future (haha what?).
I have been pouring out energy to keep in touch and maintain friendships but it doesn't seem to be getting returned?
I don't want to live like this! So what's the solution?
I work around 55-60 hours a week and have each weekend off. I try to spend it with people but most weekends I sepnd on my own.
I'm sending out messages on Wednesday, Thursday and Friday trying to reach out and set things up for the weekend but get knocked back and end up having not much on or staying in?