Quote: (05-31-2017 05:15 AM)azulsombra Wrote:
Quote: (05-31-2017 01:59 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:
Quote: (05-30-2017 08:51 PM)Lunostrelki Wrote:
Before this, however, one of the first things that happened was making it okay to have sex outside of marriage or concubinage. It became normal to have a girlfriend for a while before marrying her. Then multiple girlfriends and then one-night-stands/FWBs.
And god forbid men enjoy any of that, Right?
Absolutely not.
Apparently we should all marry virgins in our teens and abstain from premarital sex. No BJs allowed from our wives either.
The OP sounds like a 75 year old bible thumper. I'm sure he is a great patriarch and has 12 kids himself and 67 grandchildren.
There is a middle ground for men that are together enough to work towards building a meaningful life centered around a family. The alternative being living the lifestyle of a gay male, the pursuit of a sex-centered collection of notches in meaningless short relationships, and eventually growing old on your own.
You're trading off short-term hollow pleasures and setting yourself up for a pretty miserable last quarter of your life.
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