Quote: (05-10-2017 01:48 PM)kaotic Wrote:
It's a generally observed rule that you don't shit where you eat.
Surrounded by a bunch of girls can be heaven and hell.
Women LOVE to talk and gossip - this has pros and cons.
What exactly is your job there ? I'm guessing bartender or a manager of some sort ?
Keep your game to yourself - don't give other guys the 411 on what you're doing and stay mysterious, especially if they have no game or seem like white knights.
This..
You are in a situation where the pros don't affect your livelihood but the cons do. And.. there will be cons if you continue.
The type of game you're running is not smooth enough to fly under the radar. You are providing an open visual and exposing yourself unnecessarily. People see you, will talk about you and the girls will gossip about you including the ones you're hitting on. You're using way too much PUA type lingo in your post as well which indicates a lack of good practical game.
Girls will eventually then start "losing respect" for you. It will become socially taboo to hang out with you because girls don't want to be seen as sluts around colleagues. A mother hen type can make this happen faster and so can a beta orbiter.
Go out and meet women man. It's not worth it to ruin your livelihood for a bunch of women you don't care for personally.