Quote: (05-11-2017 03:20 PM)kosko Wrote:
Bro this sheet in gold.
Interesting you say Persian girls got nice tits, I do notice this but some of the most legendary bootys I have laid eyes on have been on Persian girls.
I need some Intel for dudes who are not looking to book a flight to Tehran (One day I would like to go, both Tehran, Beirut, and Istanbul fascinate me, I have no idea why these middle earth cities lure me but the urban culture in these places looks very cool). In Toronto here I can drive 30 mins and be in one of the largest Persian communities outside of Iran in Richmond Hill. Intel on swooping girls who grow up here in North America would be great.
My biggest hurdle I find is:
Logistics (they live suburban mostly)
Family (always around.. cousins, aunts, parents.. they always have family around)
Persian Dudes who cock block (Persian dudes are cool, I have tons of homies who are Persian... just don't try to fuck their sisters or cousins) When their women around them though, all my Persian homies hate on Persian girls and think they are waste of time, but when I want to swoop them they try to talk me out of it (almost in a persistent manner which borders passive cock blocking).
In regards to a man of dark melanin complexion, I find Persian girls are either into it, indifferent, or not about it. The ones who are not about it only deal with Persian dudes explicitly and don't even check for other types of dudes. In Toronto anyhow I find more Persian girls are into non-white dudes overall. I find the measuring stick mostly is class, for example, lots of these Persian girls come from rich Real Estate families. If you are a dude who is in that class setting then swooping Persian girls is easy.
I think the culture is cool though. I find it admirable how much family plays a big role in their culture. They do everything together and spend lots of time together. The family structure and unit is very strong in the culture. It is a trait that is not as common in modern North American culture as a whole so that is very refreshing to see.
Hey, sorry for the long delay in getting back to you.
The major thing to know about trying to get with Persian girls outside of Iran, and here I am mainly talking about in North America and Europe, is something you already alluded to. I am dealing with an Iraqi girl at the moment and their culture is incredibly similar to Persian culture especially with regards to dating, except that Iraqis seem to be a bit more conservative.
The thing about getting with Iranian girls abroad is you have to be conscious of their family or community. Here I am not talking about a Persian girl you bang in a club or the relatively few that don't care at all about what family, friends, and other Persians have to say (there are a lot of these but the percentage is small). You have to essentially "sneak around" with her, which I will explain, but keep in mind that this will REALLY turn her on. The best strategy is to play the situation cool and try to avoid any place where she can run into people she knows who in her mind will instantly start spreading rumors about her and it will make it back to her family and friends.
Iranian women, and what I am noticing is true of Middle Eastern women in general, love to feel like they are doing something wrong, and the most thrilling way for them is to date a guy that their family/friends/community doesn't know about. If you are interested in something long term with one, she will eventually be your biggest defender and champion when she loves and trusts you, but give it a lot of time and let her be the one to decide to open up about her relationship with you.
****All that I am saying applies to a certain type of Iranian girl, but keep in mind that there are tons that either act just like American/Canadian/European girls, club and bar sluts, or totally "color blind".
About Persian guys "cockblocking", it happens, but it also happens with men of pretty much every race. Iranian men, and Middle Eastern men of every country complain A LOT about the females of their country. The women do the same exact thing about the men. The funny thing is a lot of times they end up with each other anyway. The reason the men complain about Persian girls is because they make us behave and treat them in a way that they don't necessarily do with men of other races. That isn't always the case, but you have to realize that men of all nationalities are betas to a large extent, and it is rare to find a good player or "alpha". Persian women often will treat Persian men very well, but whereas they will go to Chipotle readily with another race it has to be a fine Mexican restaurant with us. Not all the time, and not in every case, but enough of the betas are experiencing this and that is why they are complaining. It has nothing to do with them trying to cockblock you, they just think it is a headache and if they like you they are trying to advise you not to go through it because it is all they know and they think it will happen to you as well. Persian guys always talk about how White/Latina/Asian girls can be taken to Chipotle and on the second date they give up the pus. I don't know how true that is, but the one or two girls that they've had in their life like that is why they think the 5-6 date Persian girl is not worth it.
I personally have never been treated like a beta by a Persian girl, and I've never said another guy shouldn't date one. I also really love Persian women, but then again there is not a single race of female that I dislike.
When you say melanin that means black right? I'm not sure if that applies to someone like a dark skinned Indian as well. I have never been a dark skinned guy so I can't tell you from experience, but I do know how the psychology of how Persian women view race. Generally Persian women, when they are not interested in Persian men, go for White/Black/Arab. I've also known Persian girls that marry Pakistani or Hispanic and other races, but those three, White/Black/Arab are the three that appeal to Persian girls dating outside the culture. Each one of those three races represent something different to Persian girls, and a lot of time it is something of a "phase" they have where they want one of those guys and they eventually end up with a Persian guy to marry.
Since you asked me about melanin I'll address black only. When a Persian girl dates a black guy or has black guys at the top of her list, it is usually for the same reasons that other women do it. A lot of times it isn't based on the reality of what a black man is, which is just a man with a different culture, but based on fantasy or desire. I'd say proceed as you would if she was white or asian or hispanic or whatever in terms of game. The only difference relates to what I said above. Just keep the early stages of things on the down low. Try to stay out of sight of her peer group or family at first until you have won her over, and when she feels confident enough she will start to bring up the subject of revealing who you are to everyone herself.
The only bad or sad situation, which comes up but I am not sure exactly of the frequency, is as a black guy you could just be a phase or a fantasy that once she experiences it she has had enough.
You mentioned logistics. I live with my parents, but I still fuck. Persian girls tend to do the same. Get it in at an hourly hotel, in your car, or in the park. Just don't get in trouble with the law and don't get her pregnant. Then logistics don't matter as much.