I saw an episode of "Seinfeld" where George discovers that when he leaves interactions he's involved in on a high note, he conditions people to be happier to see him whenever he's around. I decided to start doing this in real life as a test, and believe it or not, the shit works.
When you're talking to a girl in a bar and things are going well, it's tempting to try keeping it going as long as you can, but this isn't always the best idea, particularly if it's early in the night. Why? Because chances are she's going to eject first if you don't, and then you lose that momentum. So what do you do? Leave things on a high note, just like George. If you leave things on a high note, it makes it so much easier to re-approach later because you left her wanting more.
Instead of sticking to her like glue, or following her around like a little lost puppy -- have the balls to end things with her prematurely, leave her wanting more and revisit her later on. It can pay dividends.
When you're talking to a girl in a bar and things are going well, it's tempting to try keeping it going as long as you can, but this isn't always the best idea, particularly if it's early in the night. Why? Because chances are she's going to eject first if you don't, and then you lose that momentum. So what do you do? Leave things on a high note, just like George. If you leave things on a high note, it makes it so much easier to re-approach later because you left her wanting more.
Instead of sticking to her like glue, or following her around like a little lost puppy -- have the balls to end things with her prematurely, leave her wanting more and revisit her later on. It can pay dividends.