You are going for kino before you have build the comfort/attraction.
You can't just kino a random girl on the street, you need to go through the comfort/attraction phase with any girl before escalating.
See again, double down on having fun, demonstrating value, be less engaged and outcome dependant.
If you can not get the attraction phase right, Kino will always fail.
Do not be afraid to next if its all too hard, and taking too much effort. She may not be into you, but using you for validation/emotional needs or attention.
You can't just kino a random girl on the street, you need to go through the comfort/attraction phase with any girl before escalating.
See again, double down on having fun, demonstrating value, be less engaged and outcome dependant.
If you can not get the attraction phase right, Kino will always fail.
Do not be afraid to next if its all too hard, and taking too much effort. She may not be into you, but using you for validation/emotional needs or attention.