[americanInEurope]

(11-06-2011 10:12 AM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:  

(11-05-2011 09:27 PM)americanInEurope Wrote:  

I've lived in Germany for 7 years. I'm a black American and have extensive field experience. I'm sorry if I burst a lot of guys' bubbles here but...

Germany, like America, has some parts that are good and bad. The thing most of you guys visiting miss out on Germany because you aren't here that long is that Germany has a hella amount of non-German talent living here. I've had the finest Russian/Kazakh/Greek/Portuguese/Turkish ass right here in the Fatherland. Whenever I wanna "visit Russia" I just go to Mannheim or Heidelberg or something cause they're all there. Berlin and Hamburg are proper cities but like everywhere in Germany you lose points for not speaking German. Germans have some patience but at some point that shit runs out and they expect you to speak to them in their language. Or, you'll lose out to the ugly German guy who does speak the language every time. Bavaria has the best look girls in Germany, with thick asses, blonde hair and beautiful blue eyes. Some are thin and model like also. Too bad tho because it's the least likely place you'll hook up if you don't speak German or don't look German. And every German girl shaves the kitty kat. I've seen some extremely beautiful girls here. But on average German girls are like 6's or 7's, and they aren't that great in bed like EE girls. There are little bastions here and there of hot girls DTF foreign guys, and I find they're mostly in the north in NRW around Duisburg/Duesseldorf/Cologne/Dortmund. I don't know why this is. Hamburg and Berlin there's a lot more shit to do but expect to run into the same shit you see in Paris or London. Munich is great if you're a white dude.

My take on why Germany doesn't get that much love in the travelers circuit? Germany is a very conservative country socially and culturally. Peacocking is looked down upon here as most German guys don't have any swag and will hate on guys who they see as coming off as too cocky. The people here also can be a bit judgmental at times, having judged you before you even open your mouth. They're very direct people who want to get the quick and dirty about someone as fast and efficient as possible, unfortunately tho most of the time without even talking to the person. Germans especially in smaller towns will follow a person if they hear English and determine amongst themselves who that person is and what they're doing in Germany and (he sounds American... he must be a soldier or look at the way that girl flirts with him like that. she's a slut and he's just here to have fun and leave or why is she with a black guy... can't she find a proper white German to get with. she just wants his big dick that's all) are all conversations I've heard before here. I'd like to believe these were just isolated incidents, but I hear this a lot and haterism runs rampate here. All this is fine and dandy as it happens in other countries too. The only different is, other countries are more fun and kinda worth the occasional bullshit like this. Germans...well let's put it this way. Russians living here (and just recently I found out the Turks as well) have a saying that goes something like Germans are like toast with no butter. LOL hilarious. Depending on where you go, if you don't look and dress like them this could cause problems with your game. If you're in an area big on bars (Munich and most of Bavaria) you won't get much love if you're a brother. If you're around a base or in an area that's big on clubs (pretty much all of Hessen and NRW) you'll get much love as Germans there are for some reason more liberal and open to dating foreigners. In Bavaria, if you don't speak German and in some cases look "German" you'll lose most of the time. It's like the Alabama of Germany. Things in Germany have been going downhill dating wise since the 90's. I got here in 2003 and it was good but not as good as I hear it use to be, when girls where curious about you and wanted to fuck you just because you were American. Now because of the wars, German chicks around bases getting pumped and dumped too many times and the fact that German guys have always hated on American guys here with more $$$ than them, the once small group of haters has grown exponentially. I think Czech and EE is still good, but those places are changing fast too.

I guess I'm kinda jaded about Deutschland. I've been here for so long and have gone thru so many phases where I tried to blend in (lol yeah right, a black dude in rural Germany blending in) tried to go against the grain (older German men hate and I mean HATE people they see as not falling in line with everyone else) and everything in between that I just said fuck it and gravitate elsewhere every weekend. It's got so bad that I'm moving back stateside for a few years lol. For me, Germany is fantasyland for people who long for the good ol days. If you want some more excitement and shit to write home about, skip Germany completely. If you must, don't go south of Cologne.

Europe as a whole is fucking beast and I'm getting back as soon as I can, but don't get stuck in Germany. I've had a blast here fucking a lot of pretty German girls, but things have changed. Girls here now seem to have reverted back a few decades and are traveling abroad less and getting more into German guys or just being alone. Back in the early 2000's you had your typical club trash that were looking for base guys to fuck, but every now and then you'll find a new girl who hasn't been corrupted. Or, you can just drive up to Cologne or something and experience a whole new scene where girls where hungry for foreign dudes because there were just not too many around. Now it's a complete 180. Girls are more into their own culture and their own guys and not really feeling you if you're foreign. Seems that way to me.

Great insight buddy.
What made you go and live in the Fatherland for 7 years,what kind of work?

I have to say,most of my contact with the frauleins has been very positive.A beautiful german girl/woman is pretty high up on the list for me. They're uninhibited when it comes to sex from my experience.
I would like to spend time in Munich,cause like you I think the Bavarian girls are the best looking .

Thanks. All European girls IMO are sexually uninhibited. Especially the generation before mine (the women in their late 30's/early 40's now) as they were young in the 90's and it was a straight fucking orgy here for soldiers and contractors working here then. I'm a contractor for the US DoD. If you are in IT and can get a security clearance, it's probably the best way to see the world and get paid lots of fucking money in the process. But I'm not one of those guys who never wants to go back, so I'm coming back stateside for a few years to buy a house and get some affairs in order. Then it's back overseas again Just not Germany!