6 y/o woman gets less attention on dating app than she expected; alleges racism
03-12-2017, 05:24 AM
I feel no sympathy for this woman
She's 36 years old. That's the biggest deterrent there.
Most people are attracted to people of their own race than other races. It's not too surprising on an app where the majority of its users are white she'd have a harder time.
Also, too much sense of entitlement. She feels that she deserves as much sexual attention as her white friend. She doesn't.
Who cares if she white friends are getting more attention so long as decent men are responding to her? She seems to care more about the "injustice" of not getting as many matches as her white friend than she is about meeting the matches she has.
She says she gets 1-2 matches a day, that's 30-60 over the course of a month and 360-720 matches over the course of a year (on average). If only 10% of those matches lead to dates that's 36-72 dates in a year's time. How is that bad? Her white friend may get more matches but obviously she can't go on dates with all of those men. So while her white friend has a bigger pool to choose from, they still may be going on the same number of dates.
If she feels this type of indignation of perceived racial discrimination in dating, I wonder if she has felt this type of indignation about guys of over a certain height, income, racial group, body type, etc. facing discrimination? Has she engaged in equal opportunity in dating or has engaged in dating discrimination?
Discrimination in dating is a fact of life. Just find the ones that discriminate in favor of you.
She's 36 years old. That's the biggest deterrent there.
Most people are attracted to people of their own race than other races. It's not too surprising on an app where the majority of its users are white she'd have a harder time.
Also, too much sense of entitlement. She feels that she deserves as much sexual attention as her white friend. She doesn't.
Who cares if she white friends are getting more attention so long as decent men are responding to her? She seems to care more about the "injustice" of not getting as many matches as her white friend than she is about meeting the matches she has.
She says she gets 1-2 matches a day, that's 30-60 over the course of a month and 360-720 matches over the course of a year (on average). If only 10% of those matches lead to dates that's 36-72 dates in a year's time. How is that bad? Her white friend may get more matches but obviously she can't go on dates with all of those men. So while her white friend has a bigger pool to choose from, they still may be going on the same number of dates.
If she feels this type of indignation of perceived racial discrimination in dating, I wonder if she has felt this type of indignation about guys of over a certain height, income, racial group, body type, etc. facing discrimination? Has she engaged in equal opportunity in dating or has engaged in dating discrimination?
Discrimination in dating is a fact of life. Just find the ones that discriminate in favor of you.