Quote: (03-02-2017 05:14 PM)Deadlifts Wrote:
Her debt is not entirely from the accident, she got a house with 2 other girls who come to find out are just low lives that don't pay rent, she works crazy hours at work and pays for majority of the bills. She also covers the other two girls rent when they don't have the money yet. Now her car is totaled, she's in a really shitty situation and is stressed as hell over everything. This, and given the fact she's only 20 years old I don't blame her for wanting to run back to Mom and Dad who she hasn't seen in almost two years. I've never given her any money to pay off debt, but I do what I can to make her life less stressful (take her out, fuck her like a porn star, workout together, ect. ect.) She keeps telling me how much she wants to make this work between us, and she's done so much already. Feelsbadman
It sounds like to me she lets people take advantage of her. She's "too nice." Her parents are one thing that can help her out of this mess. When you marry a girl, you will take on all her debts. Let her parents help her out and instead of assuming them yourself.
You also can't underestimate the kind of PTSD that can come from a bad auto accident. I experienced one in my 20's, and it really messed me up big time. Your girl is going through that, and it's not her fault.
For some women, this would be a huge shit test. I think this girl is for real. Go with her.
If this girl were from a more progressive state, I might be more worried. She's from South Carolina. That's a big reason to stick with her.