I really think the easiest way for a shy guy to get the bang is to slowly escalate in a way that creates so much tension that the woman will just not take it anymore and frantically unbutton and unzip your crotch. I just don't buy the idea that women will not initiate. Build enough tension long enough and she absolutely will. All women have a breaking point and it's always a wonder to behold when it happens.
Here are some more graphic tips and tricks. Sorry if this starts to sound like Penthouse forums, but sometimes there isn't enough nuts and bolts detail in the advice being given.
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Being in bed watching TV can very easily lead to sort of lazily dozing off and cuddling. You don't want to do that. You want her to know that you think it's a big deal for her to be up next to you. In PUA terms, this makes the situation more "polarizing". You want your girlfriend to see you as being a stud bursting to the seams with desire, but you're such a gentleman that you're waiting until the right moment to unleash it on her.
What you're going to be doing is entering a nonverbal dance. Try to limit talking. It's all brain-stem at this point.
Look at it from a reverse perspective first. Let's say she wanted to communicate how turned on she was, and she was already down to just underwear. Would she need to say anything? No. All she'd need to do is look you in the eyes and grab your hand and put it onto her panties so you could feel how warm and soaked they are. Actions are worth so much more than words.
As you get closer together, chest to chest, she'll start to feel your heart thumping, but the most important thing is for her body to eventually come into contact with your boner and she can feel your pulse there. You don't have to move her hand. That's too provocative. If you're rolling around in the bed, your legs have to go somewhere anyway. So you can probably slide her thigh between your legs so she's feeling you pulsing up against her thigh. So eventually it's like you start dry humping her leg. As you do that your hands start to move from her back (more innocent and romantic) to her waist and then to her hips and caressing her butt. Before you know it she'll want to wrap her legs around you and dry hump crotch to crotch. It's not a matter of if, it's when. I mean, guys complain about blue-balls but I think women also reach a point where they absolutely positively need to blow off steam.
This is what "I don't know what came over me! One thing led to another!" looks like.
In review:
The kissing turns women on sexually more than it does for guys, so you have to keep the kissing going. Women hamster away kissing as "romantic" and they don't realize that it's really the appetizer for sex, so there's little to no resistance in starting the kissing. It's the plausible deniability. Your lower bodies then just start to take on a life of their own to the point where she'll either be riding you dry humping or you'll be mock humping her missionary. It's really only a matter of time before she pulls her panties off and she'll probably pull your underwear off for you as well.
You always have to remember that sex to women is a full-body experience and the more of your body you can use at once, the better. Porn where there is almost no contact other than penetration is the worst way to do things, and I can bet women have come to expect that as the norm and just tolerate it. Women love the foreplay because that's when they get the most full body contact as their whole body is, to some degree, an erogeneous zone.
Here are some more graphic tips and tricks. Sorry if this starts to sound like Penthouse forums, but sometimes there isn't enough nuts and bolts detail in the advice being given.
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Being in bed watching TV can very easily lead to sort of lazily dozing off and cuddling. You don't want to do that. You want her to know that you think it's a big deal for her to be up next to you. In PUA terms, this makes the situation more "polarizing". You want your girlfriend to see you as being a stud bursting to the seams with desire, but you're such a gentleman that you're waiting until the right moment to unleash it on her.
What you're going to be doing is entering a nonverbal dance. Try to limit talking. It's all brain-stem at this point.
Look at it from a reverse perspective first. Let's say she wanted to communicate how turned on she was, and she was already down to just underwear. Would she need to say anything? No. All she'd need to do is look you in the eyes and grab your hand and put it onto her panties so you could feel how warm and soaked they are. Actions are worth so much more than words.
As you get closer together, chest to chest, she'll start to feel your heart thumping, but the most important thing is for her body to eventually come into contact with your boner and she can feel your pulse there. You don't have to move her hand. That's too provocative. If you're rolling around in the bed, your legs have to go somewhere anyway. So you can probably slide her thigh between your legs so she's feeling you pulsing up against her thigh. So eventually it's like you start dry humping her leg. As you do that your hands start to move from her back (more innocent and romantic) to her waist and then to her hips and caressing her butt. Before you know it she'll want to wrap her legs around you and dry hump crotch to crotch. It's not a matter of if, it's when. I mean, guys complain about blue-balls but I think women also reach a point where they absolutely positively need to blow off steam.
This is what "I don't know what came over me! One thing led to another!" looks like.
In review:
The kissing turns women on sexually more than it does for guys, so you have to keep the kissing going. Women hamster away kissing as "romantic" and they don't realize that it's really the appetizer for sex, so there's little to no resistance in starting the kissing. It's the plausible deniability. Your lower bodies then just start to take on a life of their own to the point where she'll either be riding you dry humping or you'll be mock humping her missionary. It's really only a matter of time before she pulls her panties off and she'll probably pull your underwear off for you as well.
You always have to remember that sex to women is a full-body experience and the more of your body you can use at once, the better. Porn where there is almost no contact other than penetration is the worst way to do things, and I can bet women have come to expect that as the norm and just tolerate it. Women love the foreplay because that's when they get the most full body contact as their whole body is, to some degree, an erogeneous zone.