Just a few points.
1. Boundaries. Even when you're married it is important to maintain boundaries of privacy.
2. OpSec. Why the fuck are you maintaining a complete historical log of your texts on your phone at all? If you're tapping out such epic prose in texts that you want to read it again and again, use an archive utility, encrypt it, and delete the originals from your phone.
3. Respect. Your woman needs to know that you have options by your actions and your frame, not from some list of Tinder/Facebook one-offs.
Woman: "Let me see your phone."
You: "Bookshelf is right behind you if you want to read."
Woman: "You can see my phone."
You: "Pass."
1. Boundaries. Even when you're married it is important to maintain boundaries of privacy.
2. OpSec. Why the fuck are you maintaining a complete historical log of your texts on your phone at all? If you're tapping out such epic prose in texts that you want to read it again and again, use an archive utility, encrypt it, and delete the originals from your phone.
3. Respect. Your woman needs to know that you have options by your actions and your frame, not from some list of Tinder/Facebook one-offs.
Woman: "Let me see your phone."
You: "Bookshelf is right behind you if you want to read."
Woman: "You can see my phone."
You: "Pass."