Line between chick trying to make you jealous or you keeping an eye on something
08-19-2011, 08:37 PM
If she's like Rob or whoever "was so cool, he drove a sick ass pimped out Range Rover", or "Mike is such as baller, he takes his girlfriend out to the nicest restaurant every weekend", shit like that maybe her way of making you jealous, insecure, or subtly hint that she wants you to do something for her.
Women love to test men, to see how they react ("alpha congruency"/?), and too see their boundaries and limits of how much they can get away with. I also have this theory that many women (esp. young hot, self-absorbed Amer. women), engage in what I can "subtle psychological sabotage", in order to make their men jealous, as a way to manipulate and play their emotions. It's some really fucked up shit.
My advice to the OP is listen to what she is saying with a bit of healthy skepticisim and realize that she may be testing you and trying to elicit a certain response (jealous, anger, insecurity, attention, etc.), so it is important to be self-aware. It's never a good idea to make too many assumptions, without reviewing the facts.
If this is a constant theme with your woman, that she's trying to make you jealous or fuck with your head, I know the type, and she's normally a cold hearted, vindictive, manipulative bitch. Sometimes these things take a while to figure out, or we learn them the hard way.
Women love to test men, to see how they react ("alpha congruency"/?), and too see their boundaries and limits of how much they can get away with. I also have this theory that many women (esp. young hot, self-absorbed Amer. women), engage in what I can "subtle psychological sabotage", in order to make their men jealous, as a way to manipulate and play their emotions. It's some really fucked up shit.
My advice to the OP is listen to what she is saying with a bit of healthy skepticisim and realize that she may be testing you and trying to elicit a certain response (jealous, anger, insecurity, attention, etc.), so it is important to be self-aware. It's never a good idea to make too many assumptions, without reviewing the facts.
If this is a constant theme with your woman, that she's trying to make you jealous or fuck with your head, I know the type, and she's normally a cold hearted, vindictive, manipulative bitch. Sometimes these things take a while to figure out, or we learn them the hard way.