Sounds like girl #1 is trolling you. Sounds like you could potentially be scaring the cat with girl #2. Don't get so sexual and talkative over text. Text for for light/fun chat and setting up logistics for the date thats it.
Either way you say you have dates set up. Like you said, just don't fuck up. Make the dates fun. Be casual and joke around/tease them. Don't make it like an interview and don't let them control the date/interaction. Get them talking about themselves, laughing, and smiling.
Either way you say you have dates set up. Like you said, just don't fuck up. Make the dates fun. Be casual and joke around/tease them. Don't make it like an interview and don't let them control the date/interaction. Get them talking about themselves, laughing, and smiling.