I stopped gaming 5 years ago. At that time I had read lots and lots of game and memorized theory like nobody's business. After being frustrated with the lack of results, I left game and dismissed it as ultimately being bullshit.
I was actually wrong about game being bullshit. Here's why.
I was just a really nice guy years ago or so I thought. The thing about being a nice guy is that it made me miserable. Really I was just a passive aggressive kid who thought he was nice. After leaving game and just living life without it, I focused more on myself and socializing/ making friends. In this time I became better socialized with people and more confident around others, including girls.
My approach anxiety lessened and I was better at conversing with girls. Also at this time I wasn't using game and I still don't today, per se. I did however have a profound change in my personality. I became selfish and less apologetic. These two traits I would say were crucial for me to getting laid and having better luck and relationships with girls.
Before I used to be extremely polite and respectful to girls. I'm still quite polite and respectful, but to a lesser degree. the problem with me and game was that I was just a bitch boy. What I'm trying to say is that now that getting girls is no longer a huge problem for me, I realized that the way I interact with girls now is similar to what game essentially teaches you.
If a girl goes hot/ cold on me, I don't hesitate or get emotional. I keep my cool and carry on, because the moment a girl knows she can fuck with your emotions is the moment she starts losing respect for you and toys with you for fun.
If a girl disrespects me, I don't act all hurt and salty, but I'm also not going to pretend like we're cool. I let it go and move on, don't act petty. And sure enough, they always come back on their own and apologize for their behaviour. After that you can basically do whatever you like because they feel guilty for a little while![[Image: wink.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/wink.gif)
Anyway, after meeting at least a few girls every couple months and sleeping with one or two, I realized that sleeping with girls is simple. Have confidence in yourself and be your own dude. If you ask the girls who know me, they would tell you I'm actually a nice guy, because I am. I'm still nice to girls and pull mushy shit and act cute with them, but at the right time. And I can also be an asshole but only when it's deserved.
Even though this post is a little disorganized, the point is that girls should not matter that much. After leaving game I learned so much on my own, but in the end I realized that game makes sense. I used to be shy and overanalyze situations to the point of little action. I was seriously so hopeless when it came to girls. The most important thing to takeaway would be that most girls won't care about you unless you give them a reason. Be confident in yourself and when starting it, it might be better to be a little beta, because faking being something your not can hurt your chances, it certainly did for me. Once you get more confident, then you can start to really apply game and utilize it well.
I was actually wrong about game being bullshit. Here's why.
I was just a really nice guy years ago or so I thought. The thing about being a nice guy is that it made me miserable. Really I was just a passive aggressive kid who thought he was nice. After leaving game and just living life without it, I focused more on myself and socializing/ making friends. In this time I became better socialized with people and more confident around others, including girls.
My approach anxiety lessened and I was better at conversing with girls. Also at this time I wasn't using game and I still don't today, per se. I did however have a profound change in my personality. I became selfish and less apologetic. These two traits I would say were crucial for me to getting laid and having better luck and relationships with girls.
Before I used to be extremely polite and respectful to girls. I'm still quite polite and respectful, but to a lesser degree. the problem with me and game was that I was just a bitch boy. What I'm trying to say is that now that getting girls is no longer a huge problem for me, I realized that the way I interact with girls now is similar to what game essentially teaches you.
If a girl goes hot/ cold on me, I don't hesitate or get emotional. I keep my cool and carry on, because the moment a girl knows she can fuck with your emotions is the moment she starts losing respect for you and toys with you for fun.
If a girl disrespects me, I don't act all hurt and salty, but I'm also not going to pretend like we're cool. I let it go and move on, don't act petty. And sure enough, they always come back on their own and apologize for their behaviour. After that you can basically do whatever you like because they feel guilty for a little while
Anyway, after meeting at least a few girls every couple months and sleeping with one or two, I realized that sleeping with girls is simple. Have confidence in yourself and be your own dude. If you ask the girls who know me, they would tell you I'm actually a nice guy, because I am. I'm still nice to girls and pull mushy shit and act cute with them, but at the right time. And I can also be an asshole but only when it's deserved.
Even though this post is a little disorganized, the point is that girls should not matter that much. After leaving game I learned so much on my own, but in the end I realized that game makes sense. I used to be shy and overanalyze situations to the point of little action. I was seriously so hopeless when it came to girls. The most important thing to takeaway would be that most girls won't care about you unless you give them a reason. Be confident in yourself and when starting it, it might be better to be a little beta, because faking being something your not can hurt your chances, it certainly did for me. Once you get more confident, then you can start to really apply game and utilize it well.